Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson
Relationship Coach, Brain Reprogrammer, Healthy Love Pusher
As the relationship expert on OWN’s hit series Put A Ring On It, Dr. Stacii has spent over two decades working at the intersection of emotional intelligence, attachment, identity, and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping women who are successful in life but misaligned in love understand why traditional relationship advice hasn’t worked — and what actually does. Dr. Stacii is the creator of the Emotionally Safe Love Strategy, a framework that teaches individuals and organizations how emotional safety, healthy communication, boundaries, and self-trust directly impact connection, leadership, performance, and well-being. Her approach is grounded in clinical training, real-world application, and deep emotional insight — making her a powerful voice in both personal and professional development spaces.
She has spoken to audiences across the country at conferences, retreats, corporations, and leadership events, delivering conversations that are honest, relatable, and transformational. As the founder of I Want A Good Man University, Dr. Stacii has helped thousands redefine how they show up in love and in life — shifting from performance-based connection to relationships rooted in clarity, confidence, and emotional security. Whether speaking to women leaders, couples, or organizations, Dr. Stacii creates space for clarity, self-reflection, and lasting change. Her work reminds people that success means nothing if you are emotionally disconnected — and that the safest relationships are built with intention, not performance.
Dr. Stacii Jae began her career in major motion pictures, including the classic A Thin Line Between Love and Hate, before expanding into broadcast as an on-air radio personality at Atlanta’s WVEE-V103. Those early platforms shaped the commanding voice and audience connection that define her today as a trusted media authority and dynamic speaker. Her insights have been featured in Essence, Black Enterprise, NBC, CBS, FOX, BET, and numerous national outlets. With over a decade of clinical and real-world experience, her speaking style is warm, direct, culturally relevant, and deeply transformational. Audiences leave not only inspired — but equipped with the tools to build relationships that thrive personally and professionally.
Dr. Stacii’s work is grounded in clinical training and academic excellence. She holds a Master’s degree in Marriage & Family Therapy, graduating Valedictorian from Touro University Worldwide, and is a proud alumna of Spelman College. Her contributions to emotional wellness and relationship education have earned her national recognition, including the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award and honors as one of Atlanta’s Top 25 Women. Dr. Stacii reminds audiences of one powerful truth: Success means very little if you are emotionally unsafe in the spaces where you should feel most secure.
Signature Talks
The Hidden Driver of Performance: How Relationship Health Impacts Leadership and Workplace Success
Personal relationship stress doesn’t stay at home, it follows high performers into the workplace, affecting focus, decision-making, and leadership capacity. Dr. Stacii unpacks the powerful connection between emotional safety and professional performance, giving leaders a new lens on productivity and well-being.
- Recognize how relational stress impacts workplace outcomes
- Strengthen emotional intelligence and communication
- Build healthier, more resilient leadership cultures
The Power Beyond Performance: Emotional Intelligence for High-Achieving Women
Many successful women have mastered performance, yet still feel unseen, unsupported, or emotionally exhausted. This talk challenges the belief that achievement alone creates fulfillment and introduces a new paradigm rooted in self-trust, emotional intelligence, and alignment.
- Release the pressure to over perform
- Reconnect with authentic power
- Lead and live from emotional clarity instead of survival mode
Redefining Your Butterfly: How Travel Expands Identity, Courage, and Personal Reinvention
Transformation rarely happens inside comfort zones. Through the lens of travel and immersive experiences, Dr. Stacii shows how new environments accelerate growth, awaken courage, and help individuals reimagine who they are becoming.
- Understand how environment shapes identity
- Break patterns that keep you playing small
- Embrace expansion with confidence
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